night life, by me.
Ariana’s high quality acoustic performance of Problem live on Total Ariana Live with added reverb.
However, the trait that takes you from average to spectacular comes from your measure of cognitive control, not your IQ, says Daniel Goleman, author of “FOCUS: The Hidden Driver Of Excellence,” in a recent LinkedIn post. Cognitive control refers to abilities such as controlling impulses, managing negative emotions, and delaying gratification in pursuit of long-term goals, Goleman explains. He points to studies from the University of Pennsylvania to exemplify the importance of these skills: Students that earned the highest grades weren’t necessarily the ones with the highest IQs, but rather those that kept trying despite setbacks and failures.
— Tracee Ellis Ross (via feelicity)